Hello all I am in need of some support, I was told today i will lose my baby very soon. I am just over 7wks along i have low hcg numbers but not dropping just not rising barely. Dr's did an u/s on tues baby was fine with a heart beat of 137, I started bleeding on tues night not heavy or cramps really, dr had me come back in becuase of bleeding and did another u/s and said baby has grown right but it is low to my cervix and heartbeat is now only 30. she said i will lose it soon. I am so angry and hurt and feel like a failure right now. I have 4beautiful children at home never had any pregnancy issues before and now this. Is it my fault was it the fact my husband had been drinkin the night we conceived or is it possible that everything could turn out ok. Help me please i'm lost.
its not your fault
i had something silmiar happen to me 4 weeks 3 days ago now.
i lost my baby at 12 weeks because the hcg wasnt rising and the heart stopped.
im still upset over it but you have to keep in mind that theres nothing that we oculd of done to rpevent it, and chances are that there was something seriously wrong with the baby. i know it's hard, you can PM me if you need to talk.