Support needed upcomiong miscarriage.
posted 16th Jul '10
Hello all I am in need of some support, I was told today i will lose my baby very soon. I am just over 7wks along i have low hcg numbers but not dropping just not rising barely. Dr's did an u/s on tues baby was fine with a heart beat of 137, I started bleeding on tues night not heavy or cramps really, dr had me come back in becuase of bleeding and did another u/s and said baby has grown right but it is low to my cervix and heartbeat is now only 30. she said i will lose it soon. I am so angry and hurt and feel like a failure right now. I have 4beautiful children at home never had any pregnancy issues before and now this. Is it my fault was it the fact my husband had been drinkin the night we conceived or is it possible that everything could turn out ok. Help me please i'm lost.
quoteI'm TTC since May '10, have 4 kids & live in
Wisconsinposted 16th Jul '10
It's not your fault. I'm sorry
quoteposted 16th Jul '10
It's not your fault!
I'm so sorry
quoteposted 16th Jul '10
its not your fault
i had something silmiar happen to me 4 weeks 3 days ago now.
i lost my baby at 12 weeks because the hcg wasnt rising and the heart stopped.
im still upset over it but you have to keep in mind that theres nothing that we oculd of done to rpevent it, and chances are that there was something seriously wrong with the baby. i know it's hard, you can PM me if you need to talk.
<3
quoteposted 16th Jul '10
It's not your fault mama
Theres nothing you could've done to prevent it
I'm so sorry
quoteI have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in
Californiaposted 16th Jul '10
I'm sorry mama! I lost a baby at 12 weeks we don't know why ether I hope the best for you.... (((HUGS)))
quoteI have 7 kids & live in
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im sorry this is happening to you.
no its not your fault.
i lost my baby at about 10 weeks.
if you ever need to talk there is lots of ladies on here willing to talk, even me.
quoteposted 17th Jul '10
im sorry mama and dont blame yourself. i lost my daughter at 19 weeks.
quoteposted 13th Sep
I am so sorry and it's not your fault , sometimes these things happen. I lost my child at almost 6 weeks..it hits me sometimes hard and I start crying. I am here if you need to vent or support
quoteI have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in
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