Sex Dreams

Okay I have been havign weird sex dreams some with kids and friends and I am starting to feel weird about it. I want to make sure this is normal and I am not turning into some kind of freak?? Anyone else expereince this I am 30 weeks and they seem to be getting worse.

Ooooh. A taboo subject everyone will read but notbody will post on. You are not some kind of freak.....you are a perfectly normal pregnant woman!!!! As sick as that is, it brings relief...huh? I have had wierd sex dreams or vivid sex dreams myself. In fact I told my fiance that the sex in our dreams is far better then our real sex life. He was confused by this. I bought him two parenting books (and read them cover to cover before he did). In the books it says that it is normal for women to have sex dreams (vivid) involving other people / things. It states that the dreams can be so vivid and real, that she may actually orgasm while dreaming.....and for the man not to worry about "who is making her feel this way." I am still waiting to have one of those dreams. When I find it in the book I will post again. If they are good dreams (and remember just cause it is with a friend....it is not really about having sex with your friend)......roll with it. It maybe the best sex you will remember for a long time. Just may not want to repeat it to your other half.

yep you are totally normal! don't even worry about it!

FOUND IT!!!!! This came from the book "She's Having A Baby....and I'm Having a Breakdown." by James Douglas Barron.
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#103. Realize your wife may have hot, sexy dreams that lead to her first-ever nocturnal orgasm.

She's moaning in her sleep: "Oh...ahh...ahhhh..." Your eyes open. You think, My wife's having a terrible nightmare and I'd better be a good hubby and wake her up-when, just before you shake her and say, "Hey, it's only a nightm-" you realize she is, in her mind, getting the fuck of her life! You pull your hand back. My wife, in bed wtih...who?...and what's he doing to her?...and how many of them are there in that dream? You wife's moaning escalates, and suddenly, she deflates, breathing hard, her tongue circling her lips. You're appalled! Revolted! This creature...cheating on you...pregnant, no less! Her eyes crack open. "Omigod, I just had the most incredible dreammm...."

Here are your options: turn a bright reading light into her face adn interrogate her (in whicfh case she'll remind you that dreams are not communal marital property) or just right in and join the party. You choose.
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So see.....obviously it's not a bad thing and rather normal. Now I have not had any dream that would cause the above listed.....but they are still good dreams. Happy dreaming.

I had them BAD at the beginning of my pregnancy and had a crazy one less then a week ago! I keep thinking...ARE THEY EVER GONNA STOP!?  

I had a dream last night that my husband and I had a three way with this chick (some person we don't know in real life at all) and I was the one doing the most with her. I gave her an amazing orgasm, though. lol. Then in the dream her married her. I was like, "I just had a three way with her for you, then I enjoyed the hell out of it, now you're gonna leave me?" So, I married my best guy friend (who I dated when we were kids, but we've been friends longer than we ever dated. I also happen to have lost my virginity to him) just to make my husband mad, I marry him. And then we all shared a bed and had a huge orgy! It was really weird. I've been having a lot of dreams about my ex's and it creeps me out. I have no romantic feelings for them, until I am asleep. Then I start dating them again. BUt, it is always ending badly, the way it did in real life...so I'm not too worried. But, enjoying lesbian sex in my dream sort of had me wondering last night. It's weird. I don't know if it is from my mind saying goodbye to my past (with the ex's) and reaffirming my good relationship with my husband or what. I also can't figure out why I am having amazing lesbian sex in my life. Maybe it's my mind's way of partying and experimenting since I'm not going to be doing that anytime soon. That college experimental phase...IDK.

I do know that since I've been put on bed rest and told "no sex of ANY kind, no orgasms, they could start your contractions back up" I have been really horny and having way more sex dreams than ever before. I have one or two a night.

I've had those dreams with girls too. Lol i didn't know what to think either. Its crazy. Y do we have those dreams??? Especially with the same sex??

Sarrah_G wrote: I've had those dreams with girls too. Lol i didn't know what to think either. Its crazy. Y do we have those dreams??? Especially with the same sex??

Probably because a woman knows what a woman likes and wants lol. Oh not to mention that women are more givers and men are stingy and like to receive too much lol.

OMG, yes I've been having these dreams too. I wish I was as horny in real life as I am in my dreams! Of course, in my dreams - I'm not pregnant and as big as a house - maybe that has something to do with it...  

And yeah - it always seems to involve my husband and another woman. My hubby would absolutely cream himself if I told him what I was dreaming, LMAO.  

i orgasmed in my dream and woke up and i knew i had a real one!   its weird. Luckily, that dream was with my hubby Lol

Wow I am glad to hear its normal I mean I still have a fairly decent sex life it was great till month 5 but is hard to get a great position and not hurt or feel squished. I was statign to think man am I weird or what but I also had a few scary getting killed dreams. I am glad a few brave women responded for a while I was really freaked like geez maybe i am weird. I love this board and being aboe to share weird stuff and know i am not alone and its normal

r u kidding lol!?! no huni ur not a freak,adam is 13 weeks old now but when i was pregnant wow i enjoyed the dreams lol! enjoy it it wot last forever!

In my dreams i get right to where i'm about to orgasm but then i never actually get one.. and then i wake up soo freakin horny. I hate it!

i like the dreams i hope they don't go away  

ha im a sicko  

I'm 35 weeks and I've been having weird sex dreams too. They are usually lesbian encounters and I'm like, "where in the world are these dreams coming from!?" It's crazy!