re: Plus Size & Pregers

Quoting AshliM:“ I went to the doc yesterday and he prescribed me Phenergan because I cant eat whatsoever and I havent ... [snip!] ... the lil thing. Funny how something only 3/4 of an inch long can make such a big impact on your physical and mental health. LOL ”

It works, but it may make you tired. It usually makes people tired.

Quoting Momma Karma:“ she doesnt have any insurance, i dont think she'd be able to afford it.... i'll have my bf keep trying to convince his siblings, hopefully one of them will actually come up here soon”

U might be able to get her on some kind of medicad? I don't know how all of that works. But I know alot of my patients had it when I worked at the dialysis clinic.

Quoting EricaLeigh:“ So i had another sono yesterday bc i have one every week now until i get induced... so waiting for the ... [snip!] ... sad  ( but im almost to 37 weeks thank god... almost over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats me yesterday at 36 weeks 1 day... HUGE lol”

yeah so close!

Quoting ShadowBandit:“ Lol yeah... When my brother was a baby he had really long eye lashes.. My mom said this old woman came ... [snip!] ... ended up getting so annoyed with her that she told her that she'd gladly take off his diaper and prove that he is a boy.. LOL..”

lol go mom lol  

Quoting Sassy219:“ Good Afternoon Ladies, well I just got back from my doctors appoint complete with u/s and although the ... [snip!] ... My daughter will be happy as I am as well I wanted a boy. I hope all the remainder of your tuesday is BLESSED!”

congratulations!!!!

Quoting Momma Karma:“ at least u ladies dont have to deal with this all the time... i LIVE with my bf's mom and i want to ... [snip!] ... AT LEAST let it be after his 21st birthday next month cuz i wanna celebrate with him w/o having to have virgin daquiries (sp)”

i give u alot of credit for living with his mom, i could not! i have way to many stories to be able to type lying down lol. but none the less i give u credit. we live upstairs from my mom but that is totally diff becsause we have our own house, she works nights she is not here past 2pm anyway, n she keeps out of our life unless we ask her in. like now she is a god send waiting on me hand n foot till she goes to work. its diff when its your mom.

Quoting Dazzle:“ i give u alot of credit for living with his mom, i could not! i have way to many stories to be able ... [snip!] ... unless we ask her in. like now she is a god send waiting on me hand n foot till she goes to work. its diff when its your mom.”

I agree!! My MIL drives me up an Fing Wall!! She thinks that she gets to be the wife/mom of my family.
My mom on the other hand stays out inless asked in. and when she gives us advice its a leave it or take it.
My MIL if she gives u advice, its not giving its You better do it MY way because its better.
UGH.
Sorry I'm really pissed off at hubby and MIL right now. 

Quoting Dazzle:“ i give u alot of credit for living with his mom, i could not! i have way to many stories to be able ... [snip!] ... unless we ask her in. like now she is a god send waiting on me hand n foot till she goes to work. its diff when its your mom.”

see u have a good momma... my mom is the same way... except she lives like 10 mins away, but i barely get to see her cuz she doesnt have a car and i dont get the car unless i have an appt to go to....... now my bf's mom is totally different.. shes the one always making me wait on her, even the day i went into labor and after i got home from the hospital, she had me doing her shit, cuz her ass is way too lazy.... i have to practically beg her to cook once or twice a week, and god forbid she should ever do her laundry... theres still a huge pile of it sitting in the dining room, that i WONT touch... i only do mine, my bf's, and my son's laundry, not hers

Quoting MommyTwo2:“ I agree!! My MIL drives me up an Fing Wall!! She thinks that she gets to be the wife/mom of my family. ... [snip!] ... giving its You better do it MY way because its better. UGH. Sorry I'm really pissed off at hubby and MIL right now.  ”

i understand the mil... but why ur hubby?

Quoting Momma Karma:“ i understand the mil... but why ur hubby?”

She thinks that she gets to run the marriage and make desecions with out me and my hubby LETS her. Half the time he doesn't even realize what he has done until I'm pissed off and wantting to kill him.

Example:
a little back ground first. When my husband and I decided to get married like it told u earlier I had alot of dept and she didn't want him to marrry ME because of that. Well in the 2 1/2 yrs we have been married we have managed to pay off both of my student loans and all my other misc. dept that I had.
But my husband and I struggle being newly married and having children right out at the start. He has a good job. He is a reporter for the newspaper here in Richmond. I work part time but now that I'm so far along I can't work anymore. So there is a huge problem because of $. We can pay all our bills and things like that we live in a pretty nice apartment, its not huge, but we arn't the type that try not to leave beyond our means.
Well things have come up that we weren't expecting and we have needed some help here and there.
One of which is my OB wants his money for the c-section by 28wks. I knew it was coming but we had a plann to pay it off and all that. But things happen'd and we still have 250 left on it.
Well so my MIL this weekend goes to my husband and says she would pay it but we have to pay her back. I hear her from the other room by the way talking about money and stuff like we wouldn't pay her back is what it boils down too. We ALWAYS pay our depts off.
But what pisses me off the most is they didn't come to ME and say hey I'm willing to help. They decided on there own they would do this with OUT me. and this isn't the first time they have made choices with out me. Not finacial ones but other things.
But the kicker on all of this, is she doesn't want to give me the money, she wants to do it. She wants to call me doctor and tell them SHE is going to pay my bill. Its so embarrasing to me, and maybe its just the hormones. but I'm a very proud person, and to need help to begin with makes me cringe. But for her to think its ok to hold my hand like i'm not capable of doing it myself just makes me so mad to tears.
I don't know. I probably made this post way to long.

Quoting Momma Karma:“ i understand the mil... but why ur hubby?”

Just like at Easter, she took over my Easter egg hunt, my son's first.
She tries to be santa clause for him
OMG here is a good one.
When I had my son's 2nd bday party, I saved for months and bought things months ahead of time to give him a good bday. Well I fell down my steps a couple days before. So my mom came up here to help me a day early to get the food together and help me clean my house, (i said HELP not DO) My mother in law gave her a hug and said "you did a good job on the party I know it wouldn't have hapen'd with out YOU" OMFG! I almost flipped I was so mad all I could do is walk away.
FIRST of all, mom did HELP not DO, but it was not her place to THANK her it was MINE. 2nd I put the party on NOT HER. Omg I still mad about that!
She wants Noah to wear all of Ethan's sleepers stained or not. I will not put my baby in stained sleepers, I did NOT do that to Ethan and Noah should get the same. Not fair to him
She also told me I should put all of Ethan's baby toys away and when Noah's old enough wrap them up and give them to him for CHRISTMAS?! Thats so not fair on so many levels I can't even go there. You don't give your 2nd child used toys for christmas, thats so not fair to that one.
So here is some back ground on why I HATE my MIL.

It's your mother in law and my grandmother. My grandmother has always been there for me and helped me no matter what. I am only 20 years old and I know that's kinda young to have a baby, but I am. And she paid for a lot of things when I was growing up. Well, my grandfather did. And they gave me money here and there. My grandmother has always tried to run my life. She has made every important decision in my life. And since I had no money, I had to go along with what she decided. My grandmother is not known for her good attitude. She thinks she is better than everybody and that drives me crazy. Yeah she has a lot of money. But who cares? She doesn't support me. She doesn't do anything for me. We didn't have very much food in our house the other day so I called and asked her for 4 dollars. FOUR. And she went off. Telling me how I shouldn't have spent my money on "that stupid baby". So I just said whatever and hung up. Then I cried all night because of it. All I hear from her is how I should have waited and all this stuff. I am so tired of everyone's input. Yeah I live at home with my parents and I am married, but I just now graduated from nursing school and I start my job this week. Why can't people just be a little bit understanding and not so judgmental. I get so sick of it.

Quoting NikiJ87:“ It's your mother in law and my grandmother. My grandmother has always been there for me and helped me ... [snip!] ... and I start my job this week. Why can't people just be a little bit understanding and not so judgmental. I get so sick of it.”

My MIL & FIL have a lot of money too. She always wants to "help" by giving us grocerys and doing little stuff, but we always "PAY" for it in one way or anther. Not by money but by it more being rubbed in our faces.. My FIL never says anything its ALL my MIL.
I always thought part of being a parent was to help your kids if u can with what u can. My mom and dad arn't rich by any means but if they do something for us they dont' rub it in our faces or expect anything from us in return. Inless other wise stated we would.
OMG and the whole "stupid baby" thing would have made me go so off.
and speaking of husbands, how r u and yours doing? any better?

And its not like I want the help. I don't even ask for it, they alwaysoffer it. I'd much rather be fincialy stable, but things come up and things happen that u can't always control. and its nice to have someone that u can depend on in times like that. But I'm getting to the point where if its going to make me feel down about myself and rubbed in my face, then maybe I'd rather try to find anther way..
I think all of my emotions on the subject is hightened from hormones too.

Well, Sunday night my husband decided he was leaving for a while, but then last night things were really good. He is going to the doctor with me tomorrow. Today we have argued a little, but he does these little things to annoy me and knows they annoy me and when I tell him to stop or something he gets really mad. But if you know you are annoying me then don't do it. It doesn't take a genius to figure that out. But honestly, you know what I think a lot of it is? The fact that I don't feel very sexual right now. I know that may be too much info, but he doesn't understand that I just feel uncomfortable and not in the mood very often. I found out I was pregnant almost 4 weeks ago and we may have been intimate 4 times since then. Everything is ok during those times, but when we aren't intimate he acts like a jerk.