I Want Sex, Then I Dont.. Normal?

My fiance and i, are one of a kind, we both love sex.. alot... but ever since i've started really showing in my pregnancy, i've wanted sex, like during the day or when we are in the shower (we love showering together, not sexually at all) i want to have sex with him, horribly bad, but when we get out, and start... unno... i just dont feel like it anymore, i feel like we have to have the light off when we do "it" too, because i dont feel like he wants to see me naked... he tells me it doesnt matter, but theres a little voice in the back of my head saying "your fat" .... and dont get me wrong, i love my baby.... but is it normal, to want sex one min. and then the next just not want it at all? or is there something wrong in our relationship? i dont know! i dont think theres something wrong... am i just paranoid? i think i am, lol.

We go through that too. I want sex all day, we talk about doing it, and then when the time comes to do it we're both like nah. LOL I think it's normal.

I am like that. I think about it while he is at work then when he comes home I am like...uhhh...no. It drives me crazy. I feel bad cause we haven't done anything since I found out 3 mths ago.  

I'd say it's perfectly normal cause I'm a sex hound but it seems lately that when we start to fool around, it just turns into cuddling or being together versus sex cause I lose interest despite having been hot and horny only minutes before. I wouldn't worry about it and just know that it should change later   so have patience.

i get like this sometimes too , so much that i even become angry with him when he touches me although im the one who initiated it. maybe you could try doing it when the moment strikes, like if you start wanting it while in the shower.. have sex in the shower for a bit and then move the other room.

Thank goodness there is more out there like me. I want to please my husband and myself but it seems like when the moment actually comes I just don't feel up to it and of course...he does. I feel bad because since I found out we were pregnant nine weeks ago, we have only had sex twice. I have been in so much pain it just doesn't seem comfortable enough to actually want to do anything. We are starting to try and cuddle for a set time throughout the day and it actually worked. I am more active during the middle of the day than at night and we found that if we take advantage of the daylight...we are both in the mood. Try finding your right time of day. It really helps.

My hubby needs to reed this forum cuz he thinks I am just doing it to be mean to him. It happens to me, all day I will be sitting around thinking about getting home and having sex. But when it comes down to doing anything than I would rather just cuddle or watch a movie together.