16 & a half and baby boy on the way! :)

I'm new to this whole "baby-gaga" thing, so help me out!

I'm due November 22nd and my life has been a complete turn around. I wasn't excited at first when i found out I was pregnant, as horrible as that sounds. ( i know, trust me, I KNOW) but now that everything is out in the open and my boyfriend is acting more like a FATHER then a 18 year old, I'm actually happy. I'm starting to love my baby in a different way each and every day. My shower is the 20th of this month and I'm already 8 and a half months!! My pregnancy is a very long story, but if you'd like to know, then I don't mind to tell.  

Seeing as there isnt anything else going on here tonight, and I dont mind going out on a limb here, hope I dont end up looking like a dumbass, but eh, whatever,welcome and congrats!

So, what is your long pregnancy story? Tell it, its very dull and boring right now.

Welcome...tell us the story

i want a story i'm bored!

i wouldnt mind a story

me too, Im getting impatient tell the damn story already!!!! Can you tell Im way bored?

Cloud_Nine wrote: me too, Im getting impatient tell the damn story already!!!! Can you tell Im way bored?

im hella bored myself lol

megrose wrote: i want a story i'm bored!

        Mee tooooo im bored!



an welcome to baby gaga!! im Vanessa and i just hag my baby boy Edison last week!

haha, AGH this is so cool i just finally figured out how to work this. Such a nerd... anyway...

i basically hit it from myself for 6th months, my mom knew deep down inside that i WAS pregnant.. but we never talked about it. Well i became really sick one weekend, fever was like 103 and I was SO nauseated. I went to the ER and sure enough I had to pee in a cup! woo hoo! Knowing all along that I was pregnant, but just scared... I thought "I'm gonna have to deal with it anyway". The nurse came back in and told me, QUOTE, her words "that urine was yucky!". I had a very severe kidney infection, so she said. The asshole doctor comes back in the room and is like, "well Megan, that pregnancy test came out positive" (he was such an ass!) he acted as if i did something WRONG, just becuase I AM so young.

anyway, he did the ultrasound and said in his ASSHOLE tone of voice, "Well, LOOOOOOOOKS like we've got a 5 in a half month old baby in our hands here." I couldn't even look at the sonogram, becuase I was so terrified. I hated myself, and I hated the whole situation. He walked out shortly after that, and I looked at my mother as she was sitting beside me in my hospital bed, and just started BAWLING. I couldn't stop crying, seriously.. I kept going for about 15 minutes of just "AGGHHHH *deep breath*, *inhale* *exhale* UGGGGGGGGH"

So BECAUSE I was pregnant, and my kidney infection was so bad, they HAD to admit me. I was there for four days and it was hell. The food was discusting and I was very very depressed. I diddn't know what to do, I thought about abortion, and I wanted to go through with it. The nurses would come in and ask, "did they check the babies heartbeat yet?" I would shake my head no, and then look at my mom like, "don't they know I don't want it?! i don't care." ( Isn't that so horrible? I can't believe how selfish I was. ) Moving on...

I thought my life was completly ruined, I thought my family would judge me, I wanted to literally KILL myself just so that every bad thing could go away. My boyfriend was being a dick. In the previous months before I was in the hospital I told him that he needed to tell his parents becuase it was getting WAY too late and I was scared as shit!

Well it diddn't really hit him at all, UNTIL I made the phonecall to him in the hospital. He started saying, "well this is all your fault, you should of got the abortion. I was going to break up with you, but now I have to stay with you!" And saying horrible things like that. OF COURSE, my hormones weren't emotionally stable, and I cried every single damn day in that hospital room. I wanted nothing to do with him, everrrrrr ever again in my life. I wanted somebody to beat his ass for what he said to me!

So after I got discharged, I had a Dr's appt a couple days later. Went to that.... did the ultrasound... the usual. That moment it hit me, I have an actual BABY inside of me, and I had to do something about it. Me and my boyfriend were still seeing each other but I was so damn tiny that I barely started showing until my 7th month! (hard to believe? i know, i think it's because i hid it so much) He acted like nothing was there, and it kept getting worse. I showed him the ultrasound pictures and that's when it hit him too, he would say things that would show he was happy, but he would act differenet the next day. THAT WOULD FRUSTRATE ME! I finally told his sister two weeks ago, and his family barely JUST found out after i told her. She is such a sweetheart and a loving person I knew she would understand. His family is really supportive and now my boyfriend feels much better now that everything is out in the open and we have nothing to hide. Although I don't want to make excuses for him, we all think that his head was just messed up. He shouldn't of acted the way he did, no doubt about it, but people change.

Now this passed week I've gotten super close to his family and we've been baby shopping ever sense. It feels weird, but I'm getting use to it.   Everybody is super excited and can't wait till the baby is here. I'm a lot bigger now, and I'll continue to get huge. OBVIOUSLY.

so i signed up for this website and now i'm here. I just got done doing the invitations for the baby shower tonight; speaking of..  

now it's time to PEE!!!!!!!!!! baby is pushing on my bladder!

Crazy story, good thing everyone came to their senses and everyone is all lovey and great and back to normal, super! anyway so cool now you get to enjoy the final stretch of pregnancy. what will the babys name be?

well when that baby comes you will see how perfect and wonderful it will be!! All those terrible thoughts of the past will disappear...you will grow a whole new heart just dedicated for your baby!! Its so amazing, no words can explain till you see for your self....GOOD LUCK HUN!!!
   

thanks thanks & much more thank's.

well my boyfriend is a jr. so he want's the THIRD! (which would be BABY MARCUS) and i'm like, uhm no. But idk i haven't fully decided.


I like Elijah   or Aiden,

yourwaitress wrote: thanks thanks & much more thank's.

well my boyfriend is a jr. so he want's the THIRD! (which would be BABY MARCUS) and i'm like, uhm no. But idk i haven't fully decided.


I like Elijah   or Aiden,

go with Elijah because there are about 50 Aiden's running around already. Plus you can call him Eli for short, I love that nickname!  

i like both those names!
elijah better than aiden!
 
welcome and im glad you decided to keep your baby!

Cloud_Nine wrote:

yourwaitress wrote: thanks thanks & much more thank's.

well my boyfriend is a jr. so he want's the THIRD! (which would be BABY MARCUS) and i'm like, uhm no. But idk i haven't fully decided.


I like Elijah   or Aiden,

go with Elijah because there are about 50 Aiden's running around already. Plus you can call him Eli for short, I love that nickname!  

yeah how many aidens have been born thispast 2weeks?
lol jk
but there seem to be a lot on here!