SURVIVORS SAFE HAVEN

This is a great idea for those who need it
 
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This is a great idea & i'd personally use it
 
26% (153 votes)
maybe, i'm not sure if i'm ready to discuss my issues
 
10% (59 votes)
i would never post my story or look for support here
 
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i don't know or care
 
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re: SURVIVORS SAFE HAVEN

posted 2nd Dec '10
Quoting ƒeliciα:“ Thank you!  

And now you're not so alone.  
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I have 2 kids & live in Carmel, Maine
posted 2nd Dec '10
Quoting Saraneth [7]:“ And now you're not so alone.  

Yeah.  
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 2nd Dec '10
Quoting ƒeliciα:“ Yeah.  





Sorry and I didn't mean that what happened was awesome.. just that your mom is willing to be there for you!! I think the hardest part is to feel like you're alone and feel like no one will understand.
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I live in Colorado
posted 2nd Dec '10
Quoting Mountain Mama 4THM:“ Sorry and I didn't mean that what happened was awesome.. just that your mom is willing to be there ... [snip!] ... is willing to be there for you!! I think the hardest part is to feel like you're alone and feel like no one will understand. ”

Yeah...That's exactly how I felt...I never would of thought my mom has been through this too.
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 2nd Dec '10
Quoting ƒeliciα:“ Yeah...That's exactly how I felt...I never would of thought my mom has been through this too.”




It happens to more people than you would think, it's very sad. I don't remember the exact statistics, but they're really high up there.
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I live in Colorado
posted 3rd Dec '10
Quoting ƒeliciα:“ Well, I told my mom. & yall were right. She cried, a lot, and she said she was hurt that I took ... [snip!] ... was raped when she was thirteen (which I never knew) & she didn't tell her parents either for a while so she understands.”

yay!! God works in mysterious ways : ) i'm so happy you have the support you deserve!
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
posted 3rd Dec '10
Quoting ƒeliciα:“ Well, I told my mom. & yall were right. She cried, a lot, and she said she was hurt that I took ... [snip!] ... was raped when she was thirteen (which I never knew) & she didn't tell her parents either for a while so she understands.”

I'm so glad you did. I'm sure things will be a lot easier for you now that she knows and you dont have to stress out because of your family. Good luck with everything!
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Salem, Oregon
posted 3rd Dec '10
Thanks everyone.  
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 4th Dec '10
my guy friend keeps going after me to "press charges". First of all, I'm not ready. Second of all, how can you "press charges" on a guy on a different continent? seriously, the damage happened, it wont make any difference to file some papers and watch nothing happen. ugh
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
posted 5th Dec '10
Quoting Prom night dumpster baby:“ my guy friend keeps going after me to "press charges". First of all, I'm not ready. Second of all, how ... [snip!] ... continent? seriously, the damage happened, it wont make any difference to file some papers and watch nothing happen. ugh”

People don't understand that the justice system doesn't always work. That's what she's heard you do, so that's what you do. =/
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I have 2 kids & live in Carmel, Maine
posted 6th Dec '10
Quoting Saraneth [7]:“ People don't understand that the justice system doesn't always work. That's what she's heard you do, so that's what you do. =/”

and my story's so far-fetched (well, as i see it) that i'm afraid they'd challenge me and ask a million questions, so id rather not bother. i feel safe talking about it here, but elsewhere.... just not.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
posted 6th Dec '10
Quoting Prom night dumpster baby:“ and my story's so far-fetched (well, as i see it) that i'm afraid they'd challenge me and ask a million ... [snip!] ... me and ask a million questions, so id rather not bother. i feel safe talking about it here, but elsewhere.... just not.”

i didnt report my rape because i knew it could never be proven
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I have 1 child & live in Hawaii
posted 6th Dec '10
Quoting Prom night dumpster baby:“ and my story's so far-fetched (well, as i see it) that i'm afraid they'd challenge me and ask a million ... [snip!] ... me and ask a million questions, so id rather not bother. i feel safe talking about it here, but elsewhere.... just not.”

   
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 8th Dec '10
Quoting Prom night dumpster baby:“ and my story's so far-fetched (well, as i see it) that i'm afraid they'd challenge me and ask a million ... [snip!] ... me and ask a million questions, so id rather not bother. i feel safe talking about it here, but elsewhere.... just not.”



Oh they definitely challenge you. It is the most uncomfortable, awkward and belittling experience ever. It's like that's their goal.. to interrogate you and make you feel like smurf. I never received ANY justice when I reported my issue, I was only made to feel like a piece of trash.
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I live in Colorado
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