re: Words Of Encouragement.

Quoting Laina  :" Another Poem I love that helped me too- Today I saw you crying I sent you lots of love I hope that ... [snip!] ... your heart I can't wait to see you, Mommy God says you'll be here soon Until then, I'm with you And I love you to the moon"

This is so beautiful. My heart aches reading this, I lost my pregnancy (my very first) last October and my baby wouldve been born in June. I know my baby is with Jesus, but I wish I could have my baby with me.

these poems help me alot!



My little one, You have left us too soon! Though my body can no longer hold you, I hold you forever in my heart! As precious & beautiful as a flower caught in time, A mother's love does not forget!



I Didn’t Get To Feel You Kick, Or Look Into Your Eyes. I Didn’t Hold You In My Arms, Or Hear Your Little Cry. I Didn’t Get To See Your Smile, Or Even Know Your Name. But, You’ll Always Be My Baby & I Love You Just The Same!

I thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today. I asked what makes a mother, and I know I heard him say. A mother has a baby, this we know is true, but god can you be a mother, when your baby's not with you? Yes you can he replied, with confidence in his voice. I give many women babies, when they leave it's not their choice. Some I send for a life time, and others for a day, and some I send to feel your womb, but there's no need for them to stay. I just don't understand this, god I want my baby here! He took a breath and cleared his throat, then I saw a tear. I wish that I could show you, what your child is doing today. If you could see your child smile, with the other children and say.. 'we go to earth to learn our lesson, of love and life and fear. My mummy loved me oh so much, I got to come straight here. I feel so lucky to have a mum, who had so much love for me. I learnt my lesson very quickly and my mummy set me free. I miss my mummy oh so much, but I visit her each day. When she goes to sleep at night, on her pillow is where I lay. I stroke her hair, and kiss her cheek and whisper in her ear, mummy don't be sad today, I am your baby and I'm here. So you see my dear sweet one, your children are okay. You're babys are in my home, and this is where theyll stay. They'll wait here with me, until your lesson is through, and on the day that you come home, they'll be at the gates waiting for you. So now you see what makes a mother, it's the feeling in your heart. It's the love you had so much of, right from the very start <3

"God is babysitting her/him until I can be with them in heaven"

REALLY APPRECIATE THIS POST BECAUSE I HAVE SOME BAD DAYS AND MUSIC SEEMS TO RELAX MEH A BIT !!!

I just lost my baby Lukas on September 23 and I have some good days and I have some bad days. But my days are REALLY bad!!! I listen to music alot....and it helps! I have a few verses from songs that help me cope as well as 2 poems! I hope it helps you all and I hope we all have enough strength one day to pick our heads up and not be sad that they are gone but to embrace they are where they need to be. In God's Arms!!!
"I know my heart will never be the same, but Im telling myself I'll be okay. Even on my weakest days.....I get a little bit stronger!!!!"

"This is my temporary Home
It's not where I belong.
Windows and rooms that I'm passin' through.
This was just a stop,on the way to where I'm going.
I'm not afraid because I know... this was
My temporary home."

A little angel unknown I, am, my place is as an angel in a secret land.
I didn't have a name as such, you didn't get the chance,
I wasn't meant to live on earth just touch you by the hand.
I've been sent to touch your lives and I know you’ll think that cruel,
but its only special people that are chosen exceptions to the rules.
I knew you would love me from the very start,
from that first sighting & beating of my tiny heart,
so I know that it will hurt you that you have to say goodbye,
but I am your guardian angel now and I'll dry the tears from your eyes.
I'll be there by your side wherever you now go,
I will hear you speak of me often & what I might have been if I'd grown,
I'll be the special angel in the picture that you have,
I'll remind you of my brother & my dad,
I'll have your little features all of you as one
& I'll love you always as my special mum.
You might not have got to see me as a living breathing thing,
but I'll be the ribbon around your heart and my love will be deep within,
this pleasure I promise will be mine,
to be your guardian angel from now until the end of time.
I'll gift you with my presence every night within your dreams,
walk always as your special unknown angel
gifted to you within just for a short while,
so think of me often and smile,
For I, am your very own special unknown gifted child.

A butterfly once came to me and landed in my hands. Behold! Said, I I now passes such beauty my soul demands. Within my hands cupped round my prize, I felt its litter flutter. My heart did leap with joy until I heard a whisper mutter. Clasp me not, let me fly free for here I cannot stay. Life is fleet and I must go, Just remember me today and for ever always!!!

To our little Guardian Angel, Lukas Daniel Cole! Fly over the rainbow and we'll meet you on the other side!!! We all love you so much!

I cant even make it through the first page without crying.its been 4 yars and i still feel the pain from the first time.those poems is helping me thanks ladies

Just wanted to put this out there for all of you who have an Angel. October is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month and I currently have a contest for those who wish to share their story. I do understand how painful loss can be, having an Angel of my own, but sometimes it does help to get your story out there and share it with others. I lost my Angel nearly 12 years ago and I can say that time does help, but there is nothing that could ever take the hurt away. Healing is Remembering, so let's honor our Angels by remembering them.

Too Beautiful for this Earth - everyone who participates will be getting a graphic made for their Angel.

Thank you, and hugs xxx

It must be very difficult
To be a man in grief,
Since "men don't cry"
and "men are strong"
No tears can bring relief.

It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test,

And field the calls and visitors
So she can get some rest.

They always ask if she's all right
And what she's going through.
But seldom take his hand and ask,
"My friend, but how are you?"

He hears her crying in the night
And thinks his heart will break.
He dries her tears and comforts her,
But "stays strong" for her sake.

It must be very difficult
To start each day anew.
And try to be so very brave-
He lost his baby too.

I just lost my daughter on the 4th to SIDS. I don't have the poem with me I placed it in her casket, she was almost 2 months old. The name of the poem is "my first Christmas in heaven"

This page makes me so sad  . I have suffered alot miscarriages. The hardest one was when i lost her at 6 months. I have a question for the mothers who lost children to SIDS. Does that type of loss make you want to have another baby quickly? or never want to try again because it wouldn't be the same?