ya know...

im gonna flat out say, that i dont care who this post pisses off.

I have noticed that some people can come and whine and complain about every little thing that goes on in their life, but the second that someone else does it... some people on here, just   go get a blog or something...

and im assuming that its because, yes, i have posted a few things that have obviously offended people.

maybe its because i am very upfront about who i am, and my oppinions on certain subjects.

maybe its just me, maybe i just piss people off naturally.

BUT! i will flat out tell you all, that i do have a second screen name, no i will not tell you what it is, just that i have one. i have posted in the past couple weeks with it. and low and behold, the reactions to that name are COMPLETLY different than replies i get to this name.   no i dont think so...

but i just wanted to say, that this site has gone down the tubes. no one wants to hear anyone elses oppinions, and only their problems matter, and every one else must make them up... cuz o no... no one else in the world can have problems... i have tried to be nice, i have tried to just blow things off as women on here being pregnant and hormonal, cuz yes, we can all get a little testy at times. but to do it constantly to certain people... is just stupid.

im not just whining and complaining about things said to me... but i have noticed some other screennames on here that are also constantly getting bitched out and put down... you know what? i think people need to just get over their petty little dissagreements, and when you see a new post... its a new post, leave your personal feelings towards that person out side of it... if some one needs support in something, it shouldnt matter what it is... thats what this site is for, not a bunch of bitchy whine asses that just want to yell and put everyone down...

k, im going to go get ready to leave. i have to go pick adison up from my mom. so, feel free to rip me apart, cuz i wont be here.

~ami~

Ummmm... it's agaisnt the TOS to have multiple SNs.  

Oh SHIT!

YayaAsh wrote: Ummmm... it's agaisnt the TOS to have multiple SNs.  

yea, sept im not decieving people with it... yea i made one just get reactions out of people, and stopped using it when asked by mods.

i have only replied to posts in the same way i would if i were on this sn. but thanks cuz yea.... i didnit already know that....  

Buttafli_faerie85 wrote:

YayaAsh wrote: Ummmm... it's agaisnt the TOS to have multiple SNs.  

yea, sept im not decieving people with it... yea i made one just get reactions out of people, and stopped using it when asked by mods.

i have only replied to posts in the same way i would if i were on this sn. but thanks cuz yea.... i didnit already know that....  

it's still against the rules, even if you're not 'deceiving' people. although, coming out and saying this and saying "i'm not gonna tell you what other s/n it is" is pretty deceiving if you ask me.

you might want to read Mara's "Verbal hand slap" post.

I do notice a lot of people venting about what's going on in their life, but maybe this is their way of getting it out and moving on from it. Plus, sometimes it helps to have some encouraging words from other women who might be in similar situations. I do not see a lot of put-downs. I see a lot of women who are bonding together and sharing their pregnancy, birthing, and baby stories.

Sorry, but your post just sounds rediculous, and sounds like you are trying to start drama.

p.s. Why do you have 2 screen names? That sounds decieving to me.

I haven't really seen too many put downs (save the Teen and TDC forums and i never visit the TDC forum unless I posted prior to it going there.) I see them once in a while, but I mostly see "Your baby is SOOO cuute!!!" and stuff. and "Congratulations!" I see people saying things about their personal life (venting, etc.) and I see people giving positive feedback and relating stories, etc. Maybe it's because no one has ever put me down for stupid questions asked (See: what is TDC?) or for venting about my personal life (See: baby's grandpa doesn't care) So i really don't understand this post. but really all you're going to do is cause MORE drama with this post.

Also, by saying, "yes I have two screen names, no I won't tell" IS deceiving. And posting the same opinions you would on this screen name doesn't mean anything. Unless you have the same pictures, tell everyone who you are on the other one, it IS deceiving. No one is going to know it's the same person by opinion alone. a lot of people could share your opinion.

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sweetgurl85032004 wrote:   and a double  

how do i put this nicely?



waaahhhhhhh

Very well said!  

I think mara mentioned something about having two screen names for the purpose of asking private questions or whatever is fine. Some people have made seperated screen names to talk about something they didn't want their regular screen name judged on. She mentions that in her post as well.

so are you gonna get banned now?

Bonnenuit wrote: I think mara mentioned something about having two screen names for the purpose of asking private questions or whatever is fine. Some people have made seperated screen names to talk about something they didn't want their regular screen name judged on. She mentions that in her post as well.

But she DID say that she asks the same questions on this other screen name to gage the different reactions! I personally find that deceitful because different people are on at all different times, so of course reactions are going to be different because we each have a separate one.

Adding: Also, she came out and said that she has a separate screen name and won't tell anyone what it is. It would have been better off had she not said that at all.

Ami, not to be mean because I think your a nice girl. I hate some of the drama that goes on here too but I just avoid it. I didn't even want to post this but I feel like I just have to say, ignoring is the best way. If you can't ignore it cause it bugs you that bad then just stop coming on here. I tend to stear clear from these but you know making these repeated posts about drama just causes MORE drama. So if you don;t like it then don't start it!

rosleneg wrote:

Bonnenuit wrote: I think mara mentioned something about having two screen names for the purpose of asking private questions or whatever is fine. Some people have made seperated screen names to talk about something they didn't want their regular screen name judged on. She mentions that in her post as well.

But she DID say that she asks the same questions on this other screen name to gage the different reactions! I personally find that deceitful because different people are on at all different times, so of course reactions are going to be different because we each have a separate one.

Adding: Also, she came out and said that she has a separate screen name and won't tell anyone what it is. It would have been better off had she not said that at all.

yeah I know.