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My MIL told me that I'm ruining my daughter by letting her sleep with me oops:
But it's easier for me since I BF.
And my FIL told me that I shouldn't run to my daughter everytime she cries.
I hate to hear her cry 
They are making me feel insecure about my decisions on how to raise my LO.
But I'm not changing for anybody. Esp them because all their kids still live with them and the oldest is 30.
They make me mad sometimes.

Good for you! (I mean that in a totally non-sarcastic way, too!)
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. Nothing.

fuck them!!!!!
this pisses me off even READING it. Do some good research on it and beat them down with the benefits of if.

Quoting brandie:]:“ My MIL told me that I'm ruining my daughter by letting her sleep with me. cry: But it's easier for ... [snip!] ... changing for anybody. Esp them because all their kids still live with them and the oldest is 30. They make me mad sometimes.”

i think you should raise your baby whatever way you feel is best. to each their own. i plan on co-sleeping, because i also plan on breastfeeding. and i don't think i would want to hear my LO cry either. do what you feel is best, you're her mother  

i'd just tell them to STFU. (:

http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/07/05/no-cry-it-out/

Don't feel bad, I told my MIL that i want to co sleep since i want to breastfeed, and i would like that bonding too, and she told me, that i'm going to be a bad mother because what i roll over on her or something, Well i bough this thing that is elevated, so how could I? and you better believe I'm going to be making sure I don't. She told me, once you start you can NEVER stop and all this crap. I was going to change my mind, but then i told myself, its my choice, I'm going to be the mom, I'm so sick and tiredof people telling me what i should and shouldn't do.. i swear, the first person that tells me i'm doing something bad when my little one gets here, i'm going to kick them out the house. The only way i'm going to learn is by trying..

Quoting Katelynnn011:“ i'd just tell them to STFU. (: http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/07/05/no-cry-it-out/”

I might just print that out! lol

Quoting Mommies Jellybean:“ Don't feel bad, I told my MIL that i want to co sleep since i want to breastfeed, and i would like that ... [snip!] ... bad when my little one gets here, i'm going to kick them out the house. The only way i'm going to learn is by trying..”