First Real Disappointment

So got AF today. This is the first month that I've actually been TTC, but it's still disappointing. I really didn't think it'd bother me as much, but it did.  

I mean, it's obviously not the end of the world or anything,I know I have so much more time to TTC, but I guess that doesn't make it any less sad when you get AF - I mean, I feel like crap when I get AF as it is. It's never exactly a pleasant surprise, lol.

I guess I just thought that since it was my first month TTC that it wouldn't be awful to not get pregnant, obviously because for some people it takes years, but damn.

But I guess this marks the journey ahead (hopefully not a long one!   )

Better luck next month? Baby dust to all of you TTC! <3

Don't give up hope, mama! I tried for baby #2 for a year...but it was the biggest surprise when I finally got my BFP.

dont be dissapointed!...just dont think about it!..seriously!!..when we TTC for the first time in like april/may of 08..i got off the pill..and i would think about it every day..and think about it every time we had sex...and nothing happened...then i went back on the pill...8 months later i stopped it....and the next month i was preggo!..so just dont even worry about it!..it'll happen!

try not to dwell on it, the more you stress yourself over it the less likely you are to conceive. When you are under stress your body starts to reject/shut down the non essentials. Your body will recognize the stress and be less likely to conceive!

(this is just what i learned in health, one of my pre-reqs for nursing)

Aww. Sorry my dear  

I'll PM you tomorrow because ya know, in the AM I'm uber bored and shit haha.

Night!

Just think you can try again in 7 days

Quoting *Sammi* + 2:“ try not to dwell on it, the more you stress yourself over it the less likely you are to conceive. When ... [snip!] ... recognize the stress and be less likely to conceive! (this is just what i learned in health, one of my pre-reqs for nursing)”

This is true.

I tried for a year....the month I got pregnant was the month I decided to take a break from TTC. I wasn't stressing, so it happened!

Yeah, I'm trying to not think about it that much, its just hard not to!

& That's what I heard, that if you stress about it, it won't happen.

Guess you're right though, the wait will just make it more special when the time actually comes!  

Really? Wow then our cycles are really close cuz mine started yesterday. Wouldnt that be awesome if we got pregnant at the same time? It would be so nice to share everything with! Hopefully April will be our month!!! =)

Yes! That would be awesome.   We could be pregnancy buddies.  

  
 
I sure hope so, this would be sweet!!!