if my husband doesnt cry

at the birth, does that mean he doesnt care? do you think most dads will? how will I know?

Quoting ~* DANIEL's MOMMI*~:“ at the birth, does that mean he doesnt care? do you think most dads will? how will I know?”

Just b/c a person doesn't cry does not determine how much they care mama.

Haha not at all.
I didn't cry when my son was born. And I love him to pieces.

Neither of us cried when she was born but that definitely doesn't mean we don't care. At the time we were both just in shock!

You'll know he cares if he's there. He doesn't have to cry, not even all moms cry.

My husband was to happy to cry, you should see the pictures of his smiles. Priceless

He doesnt have to cry to care.

Not at all. People react differently to these situations. I didn't cry at first, partly because of being out of it from my c-section lol and because I was just SOO excited. My husband did cry though. Not everyone cries.

My husband didn't cry and it he cares alot about our daughter. They are really close. I have seen him cry a few times in 2 years and only because his grandpa was dying and when he died. He just doesn't cry.

Quoting ~* DANIEL's MOMMI*~:“ at the birth, does that mean he doesnt care? do you think most dads will? how will I know?”

I didn't cry.. does that mean I didn't care?

NOPE   I cared a tonne.. different people react differently, crying doesn't mean anything.

I bauled when my daughter was born.
When her dad saw her, he just smiled really big.

Jay never cried...he actually had the biggest smile I've ever seen.....and he's a great papa. Not everyone expresses their emotions the same..you'll be fine  

Quoting ~* DANIEL's MOMMI*~:“ at the birth, does that mean he doesnt care? do you think most dads will? how will I know?”

no doesn't mean that at all. I didn't cry and I love my son and care. My husband didn't cry either and he loves and cares. I was in to much shock and amazement to cry and he was to happy watching my face and looking at the bubs to cry. Crying doesn't equal caring

Quoting ~* DANIEL's MOMMI*~:“ at the birth, does that mean he doesnt care? do you think most dads will? how will I know?”

Doesn't mean he doesn't care.
My husband doesn't cry about anything (I've seen him cry once and that was because he was EXTREMELY ill and couldn't get a ride home from work).
I probably won't cry either when our kid is born.

People express emotions differently. Not crying doesn't equal not caring.