re: Here it is: your very own teen parenting forum!

Quoting Momma K Loves Big Daddy D:“ Im 16 and i have no idea how 2 tell my parents they have banned me from dating my boyfriend so they have ... [snip!] ... i dont know how im gonna break the news to them Im 7 weeks pregnant i dont know what 2 do but i am definately keeping the baby”

gosh girl you are in a hard situation.im 16 to,but im 15weeks&6days and i still havent told anyone in my family about this,i have went to the doctor though.i dont know what to tell you to do,but where are you planning on living when u have the baby.how do you think your parents will react?

you need to go to the doctor,even if you go before telling them.

Quoting *mandacole*:“ gosh girl you are in a hard situation.im 16 to,but im 15weeks&6days and i still havent told anyone ... [snip!] ... u have the baby.how do you think your parents will react? you need to go to the doctor,even if you go before telling them.”

ive already went to the dr twice so thats not a problem. But i plan on living w/ my bf hes been rly great through all of this hes rly been there 4 me hes gonna help support me and the bby
my mom is bipolar so i have no idea how 2 tell her idk if im even gonna do it until after i move out idk im confused plus i found out that im having some complications w/ the bby so idk if im even going 2 be able 2 have it im scared i dont wanna loose my bby

I'm happy that now, i can find a support that can relate [: 

Quoting Momma K Loves Big Daddy D:“ ive already went to the dr twice so thats not a problem. But i plan on living w/ my bf hes been rly ... [snip!] ... that im having some complications w/ the bby so idk if im even going 2 be able 2 have it im scared i dont wanna loose my bby”

dangirl,well i told my grandma&she just said i know i will have to move out bc of my grandpa,lame.

and i sent my dad a letter,

not sure where im going to live,im not with bbyddy no more but i know i can always go to his house if i want HAVEEEEE to.not sure.

private message me if you need.

Hmm, i don't know what i should do to have a healthy and successful pregnancy this time . The last pregnancy didn't go very well, i had a miscarriage . What should i do , so this one would be better? :[ feeling blue .

is anyone else here 15 and pregnant?
im not coping good with it AT ALL

please i need someone to talk to
no1 else seems to understand
my ex full yelled at me and everything when i told him
he even said to me he hopes it dies in my stomach
and my parents dont care 1 bit about me anymore
someone please talk to me

you know what bugs me the most about being 19 and pregnant is the way people respond... I got laid off my job just before I found out I was pregnant, It took me a couple monhs to get an interview lined up and I of course was showin, I've been to about 10 interviews a month for the past 4 months, I get turned down from every single one... I have a great job record great references and lots of experience, I've never been fired, never gotten in trouble at work, never been turned down from an interview up until I got pregnant. The only thing they could possibly hold against me is the fact that I'm pregnant. It just doesn't seem fair to me people tell me "it's a huge liability for some place to have a pregnant woman" but they fire people because they get pregnant. I need a job more than any other person applying I've got a baby on the way!!! UGHHH IT PISSES ME OFF SOOOO BAD!!!! i dunno what to do!

Quoting -hectiikk_bubble-:“ is anyone else here 15 and pregnant? im not coping good with it AT ALL please i need someone to talk ... [snip!] ... he even said to me he hopes it dies in my stomach and my parents dont care 1 bit about me anymore someone please talk to me”

dont worry about everybody else. You do what you gotta do for yourself and your baby. Be strong and do your best to keep it healthy. It's hard I know but stay open minded as young as you are don't block out the idea of adoption. I had a hard time in the beginning. When I found out it was super emoional, I fought with my boyfriend constantly I went through like every possible emotion there is happy, sad, mad, scared, you feel it all. And so we broke up and he wouldn't even talk to me and I was scared I was gonna be alone. My parents were willing to help but I didn't want them taking the place of the father so I almost put it up for adoption as much as I hated it, I knew it would be better for the baby than me struggling to raise it on my own, It'd be welcomed into a fmaily ready for it with two parents who are financially capable. I know a couple girls who were 15 and 16 when they had a baby, you'll make it through, just make sure you let your parents know. They will help you out whether they said they would or not. My parents alway told me they'd disown me if i got pregnant before marriage so I put off telling them. Actually I didn't even tell them, my bofriend did out of spite for me because he was mad. I didn't go home for like 24 hours cuz i was scared... but i came home and they weren't even mad, we talked it out and they were ready and willing to help out in any way possible..

Quoting Mara:“ we got a pretty solid support for an idea offered up by one of our teens to start a teen parenting forum... ... [snip!] ... are more than welcome! enjoy! ps. i'll be moving a few conversations from PWI into here from people who supported the idea.”

Well i have been having very bad stomach ach's and i have been throwing up white and brown, and i know im pregnant, ill be 1month in 2days but, Im scared iom only 14 i have no idea what i got myelf into, and i know its my fault. But my parents dont know and i have no clue how im going to tell them. Im going to be a single mother, at 14 and my ex boyfriend the baby's so called father hasnt freaking talked to me ever since the last time we did things.
But yeah please help me i have no clue how to handle anything anymore.
:] Thanks.

im only 18 n so is my boyfriend. we are goin to have our first baby in october. we both are pretty scared. we dont really kno wat to do or how to handle everything.

Quoting Elizebeth[Feb 19th]:“ Well i have been having very bad stomach ach's and i have been throwing up white and brown, and i know ... [snip!] ... to me ever since the last time we did things. But yeah please help me i have no clue how to handle anything anymore. :] Thanks.”

have you told him your pregnant?

Well this is my first post, I've been kinda scoping out the site for the past few days and I finally feel like I can say something. Well first off my name is Dani and I am 16. I am 6 months pregnant and not happy about it at all. I am giving my baby up for adoption but I am so scared that when I see my baby girl for the first time I wont be able to do it, does anyone have any advice?

Quoting ~Dani~:“ Well this is my first post, I've been kinda scoping out the site for the past few days and I finally ... [snip!] ... but I am so scared that when I see my baby girl for the first time I wont be able to do it, does anyone have any advice?”

I almost went through the adoption thing. I'm 19 and I was single with no job and no money, in debt. Things worked out for me eventually. But I guess the best advice I can give you is keep telling yourself why your doing this and that your baby will have a life that you couldn't give it. That's what helped me get by. Just tell yourself its better off for the baby. Think into the future about how happy it's gonna be, and there are ways you can watch your baby grow up even though you can't be there. Which I dunno if you'd be able to do that, I don't think i could, but some people do.

I want to give my child the best life she can possibly have but I am afraid I wont be able to give her away once I see her =/
I think that I could do it on my own with the help of my parents but I dont want to risk hurting her in the long run  

Quoting ~Dani~:“ I want to give my child the best life she can possibly have but I am afraid I wont be able to give her ... [snip!] ... her =/ I think that I could do it on my own with the help of my parents but I dont want to risk hurting her in the long run  ”

well I'm doin it on my own with the help of my parents. I'm taking online classes for a college degree, my dad paid for my school, when I'm not pregnant I'm getting a job and my mom's gonna help out watchin the baby for a little while till I can afford day care, and till she's old enough. The baby's father is in the picture, but I'm really trying not to rely on him. My insurance and my baby's insurance will be covered under my dad's because I'm still in school. Most people really can do it. It's just a matter of getting your priorities straightened out. Online classes are really great. It takes an hour of my day and I can do the work anytime between bright and early till 2 in the morning. I have 2 friends who had babies when they were 16, they started homeschool, finished and graduated with high school within a year, then started college they are doing fine. They're parents have custody ofthe babies becase they weren't 18, but they still raise them. It's all a matter of what you beleive, if you don't want to give the baby up don't, do what you feel is best. You'll be alright.