Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ Just to inform you, I requested a 4 member review. ”

What are you even talking about?

Quoting Satan:“ What are you even talking about?”

  

Quoting casey♥:“   ”

I already know. I just wanted to watch her ramble on incessantly while i laughed maniacally.

Quoting Satan:“ I already know. I just wanted to watch her ramble on incessantly while i laughed maniacally.”

haha. I'm lost but hey maybe that's better.

Quoting casey♥:“ haha. I'm lost but hey maybe that's better.”

No She's asked Mara to "Review" C Kara uhm Carla and me. Because ...uhm.


We don't like her?
Or we aren't nuts..and don't get her so...something.

Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ Did you see her post on the second last page - where she said I was a Slave owner, and posted a photo ... [snip!] ... getting worse and worse. How much of her behavior do we just have to Ignore, before it is considered to be in Violation!??”

i'm not seeing any racism in what she posted. there was no discussion of race anywhere that i saw.

it was indeed graphic and one could argue for modding that particular post from that standpoint, but it's nearly at the same level as posting images of dog poop/cow feces (in terms of graphicness), eh?

honestly, i don't see either of your posts (or anyone's behavior in there) as any different than all the various sorts of generic high school drama that happens on here on a daily basis, the only difference is everyone's older, the discussions and insults are more complex, and the ability to hide behind that is subsequently increased, but at it's core, we're still talking about people butting heads and lashing out accordingly.


there've been times where both of you have attempted to make a truce/amends and for whatever reason, rather than being adults and letting it go, we're still here discussing it as if this sort of typical back-n-forth is a serious breech of the rules.

really, it's not. we're right in the same grey area of any other member-based conflict that has more to do w/ the background of the members' interactions than any sort of genuine abuse.

Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ Mara, I had her on IGNORE after we talked, however another Member brought this to my attention - as ... [snip!] ... entire post would be voided and erased, so my friend will not see all these inconsiderate, crude and Racist comments.”

*ahem*

Why do you keep glossing over the unprovoked reaction, calling my husband a "fudge packer" when I made a perfectly reasonable, non combative post to you?

C.

Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ Just to inform you, I requested a 4 member review. ”

That's not a thing. All you can do is send a request to have specific posts hidden.

C.

Quoting Mara:“ i'm not seeing any racism in what she posted. there was no discussion of race anywhere that i saw. ... [snip!] ... other member-based conflict that has more to do w/ the background of the members' interactions than any sort of genuine abuse.”

Well I did put her and all her chums on IGNORE after we talked, and did unsubscribe to the posts like you suggested - but it was another member who brought this to my attention - so I went and checked and did find it offensive - especially as I had already made a move to IGNORE them --------------but she wont quit!! She will bring her husband on instead of just letting it go!!! Thank you Mara for discussing this - and I will have HER on Ignore once again!!!

Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ Well I did put her and all her chums on IGNORE after we talked, and did unsubscribe to the posts like ... [snip!] ... of just letting it go!!! Thank you Mara for discussing this - and I will have HER on Ignore once again!!! ”

He does all my bidding, dear. I keep him on a leash when I don't need him.

Please, honestly, do put me on ignore. You are the one who keeps starting things up. You're just incapable of either seeing it or admitting to it.

C.

Quoting Sharonblueyes{EBFB}:“ Now if that post in particular had been flagged, I would probably vote that it was abusive. But you two ... [snip!] ... it was abusive. But you two pass it back and forth all day long.... you should just put eachother on ignore and call it good.”

Done from my side - but I don't think C. would have much to say if I wasn't here! We shall see what she does.........................

*snort*

C.

Quoting Satan:“ No She's asked Mara to "Review" C Kara uhm Carla and me. Because ...uhm. We don't like her? Or we aren't nuts..and don't get her so...something.”

4 of you!!

Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ 4 of you!!”

Yes, we can count.

C.

Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ 4 of you!!”

uhm.
yeah.
C
Kara
Carla
and me.

Can you not count?