Quoting Cougar-Courage:“ Did you see her post on the second last page - where she said I was a Slave owner, and posted a photo ... [snip!] ... getting worse and worse. How much of her behavior do we just have to Ignore, before it is considered to be in Violation!??”
i'm not seeing any racism in what she posted. there was no discussion of race anywhere that i saw.
it was indeed graphic and one could argue for modding that particular post from that standpoint, but it's nearly at the same level as posting images of dog poop/cow feces (in terms of graphicness), eh?
honestly, i don't see either of your posts (or anyone's behavior in there) as any different than all the various sorts of generic high school drama that happens on here on a daily basis, the only difference is everyone's older, the discussions and insults are more complex, and the ability to hide behind that is subsequently increased, but at it's core, we're still talking about people butting heads and lashing out accordingly.
there've been times where both of you have attempted to make a truce/amends and for whatever reason, rather than being adults and letting it go, we're still here discussing it as if this sort of typical back-n-forth is a serious breech of the rules.
really, it's not. we're right in the same grey area of any other member-based conflict that has more to do w/ the background of the members' interactions than any sort of genuine abuse.